MY LONG DISTANCE LOVE

i asked u a while if u thought being away for 8 months is too long but i found out im going home for christmas and part of me is excited n the other is not. my bf has been reli busy with school, work n fam stuff lately n its like im his last priority. i talked to him about it and he asked if i could be patient with him for a while so he could organize his time better. im worried that wen i go home he wont have time for me an he said thats nonsense but for some reason i cant shake the feeling

Hi! I just want to share something about my long distance relationship. I've been together with my boyfriend for four years and I just moved here in California months ago. And it's so hard not to be with him. We've been together since we we're in college and I'm really used to having him around with me most of the time, he's loving, mature, supportive, and very understanding. And I'm feeling guilty having a crush on my guy friend who's living here near me, he's really sweet to me, is this wrong?

2 days ago at a football game, the band from my middle school was invited to come play along with the band from his high school. he plays trumpet and i play flute, so i thought "awesome! perfect time to see him again!" it was pouring down rain as we were sitting in the stands, i in the front row and he in the back, under a poncho with another girl. i am jealous, and as he's in high school and far away, i don't get to see him every day like she does. any advice would be greatly appreciated.

So you followed me, and this was quite some time ago, but i just saw. And i clicked on ur blogg. I was like woah!!! cuz u have a long distance relationship!!!! and i kinda do too but sorta. I used to live 15 min awat from my gf. I just moved and now i like 40 min away from her. We used to hang out twice a weekend during the school year, and over the summer we hung out like 4 times a week. 6 months soon. So its only been the first week in my new town, any advice?

My boyfriend lives in squamish an I live in delta, (3hours away) I never see him anymore because we're both in highschool and he can't drive. I can feel us drifting apart. Weve been together for a little over 6 months and I adore the kid but it's hurting me to be away from him this long. And now there is someone else in my world. Kind of. I don't know what to do. I do love him but he's hurting me. And now we just spend out time fighting.... I miss how we were before I moved. Advice??? Please!!

My boyfriend lives in Canada and I live in Australia. Do you think it is a good idea if I move to go to university in his country? Would it be a win win situation? Or should I reanalyse this or wait on it before pursuing or establishing any final decision? Thanks in advance!

i started my first year of university last year in canada and for summer, i went home to the caribbean. my best friend told me she had a guy for me to meet. after going out a couple times we just had that connection and we've been together for 4 months now. the thing is i'm in canada for the school year which is 8 months and i dont know if i will be able to go home for christmas to see him but we reli love each other and are trying our hardest for it to work, but do u think 8 mnths is 2 long?

This is probably stupid, because I'm not in love... But. I met a boy at camp this summer, how cliche. But, I really care about him and on the last day he said he cared too. He lives about five or six hours away, so obviously we can't date. We still talk sometimes, on Facebook. He might go to my dream college next year, he's a year older than me, and I'm Hoping we'll get a chance to date. I know that's stupid, What do I do for two years? (When I go to college) or what if he goes somewhere else?

Feel silly asking for help from someone on this subject but here goes - basically, i was dating a boy for about a month and a half, stupidly enough i realized I was ready and he took my virginity..he dumped me 2 days after. 3 weeks later he started arguing with me and called me an attention seeking cow. This plus some other personal troubles have been getting me really depressed. Any advice?

Hello, I really need an advice now, I have a boyfriend, and he lives in England, and I'm from México,we've been together for a year now, at the begining was very hard, but then our relationship got better and better, now he is starting a new job and I won't see him a lot, and that really makes me sad, we spent all day together, but now everything will be so different, he say he will work for us to be together, but I miss him so much and, I'm afraid that he can get use to be without me :(

My boyfriend is always getting really upset that whatever can't physically be together, he's in America and me in Australia. It gets to the point where his hands shake and he just looses it and cries or punches a wall... I just don't know what to say or do to help him through this...

I am going to visit this guy i really like but he lives far away. I am going to see him in about 4 days and I am so excited except I have no idea what to say to him!!! Im really nervous! what if he doesnt like me? Or what if he doesnt even talk to me? what should i say to him?

Well, I've got a problem. 6 months ago I moved into a student flat with 5 roommates. One of them has been my boyfriend for the past 4 months now :) So we kind of lived together, never used his room anymore... Now he is on a 5-month trip, 10.000 km away from me. Do you have any advice? I never had a long distance relationship before, and I already miss him so much (he's been gone for 2 weeks now). I've got 3 more months to go untill I go visit him for 3 weeks...

Hello, I'm female, 23, I had a boyfriend before I came to Seoul to travel. At that time my bf came to USA to visit relatives. He didnt make time for me, he never got on skype and messaged me once/2 days. I was very sad and I didnt know if he still cared about me. After 3 weeks, I broke up with him and that night I went out with my friends in Seoul, I met another guy (from another country) and we were very attracted to each other, we keep in touch very well. My ex wants me back. What should i do?

I went on a trip for about 2 months came back for a week during this time my gf found out I kissed another girl last summer while we were dating, when im home she was happy that i came back but broke up with me because I moved away for a semester. She says she loves me and I love her so much and would do anything to be with her but the more I try the farther she goes. A wek after I left she kissed another guy. she wants to get back with me when im home, what should i do? dont want to loose her