I want a man who’s committed, and won’t just walk out on me when things get tough. Someone that listens to what I have to say and doesn’t just hang up and ignore me. Someone who doesn’t just choose a career over love, but makes the two work together. Someone who fights to make our love work, no matter what the situation is. Someone who doesn’t just give up on love when he feels like it. Someone who shows me he loves me, not just tells me. Someone who will prove to me he’ll stick by me no matter what.
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Yesterday was my birthday. Travis broke up with me. I feel so used :/
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Hey everyone, I haven’t been in tumblr for like the last month, I’ve been completely caught up with school, work and me and trav have been having some problems. But now everything’s fine which I’m really happy about, hope everyone’s staying strong
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➜Okay, I don't know what it is, but I feel that I need to write this. My boyfriend and I got together about a year ago, and I had to move to go to uni. He's 2 years younger than me, so he had to stay home. We are doing fine with distance. But tonight he called me and asked me when I was coming home. I said the 14th why? He paused and started crying saying how much he missed me. I feel like I'm hurting the only person I love and it's all my fault he's hurting :(Anonymous
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I just finished the pens. If there’s anything you want me to change, don’t be afraid to ask! I haven’t baked them yet so anything can be changed. The re black and white one has thinner blocks of color I’m not sure which you prefer. Just let me know! Also, it will come to $10 if that works for you. (: I’m sending this as a submission. So that you can see the pens(:
-these are the lovely clay pens I’m buying off Kelli&Brandon! I think they’re so sweet and can’t wait to give one of them to my boyfriend. Plus I know the money’s going towards a good cause :) if anyone’s thinking of buying anything to support people in LDRs I’d definitely recommend these guys - they’re even shipping to the UK for me :)
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➜Hey - the December BOTM poll is up on my page! Tell your followers to get to my blog daily throughout November to vote for you. If you win, you'll get a screenshot promo once a week throughout December, a link to your page on the main page of my blog, a link to your page on my BOTM page forever, and you can ask for a regular promo whenever you'd like throughout the month. Good luck!
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➜i asked u a while if u thought being away for 8 months is too long but i found out im going home for christmas and part of me is excited n the other is not. my bf has been reli busy with school, work n fam stuff lately n its like im his last priority. i talked to him about it and he asked if i could be patient with him for a while so he could organize his time better. im worried that wen i go home he wont have time for me an he said thats nonsense but for some reason i cant shake the feelingAnonymous
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➜Polls up, tell your followers they have all of November to vote!
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#96 distance is just a test to see how far love can travel
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This boy is my strength, he’s my everything and I don’t know what I’d do without him. He always knows how to make me happy and is always there for me no matter how far apart we are. I love you so much TJF <3
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I have been in a relationship for seven months now. Four of those months we have been long distance, I am now in Indonesia and she is still in China. We have an amazing relationship when we are together but when we’re apart I am the problem. I worry excessively. Not that she will be unfaithful or anything like that. I trust her. We have known each other for four years and been friends who grew closer for two of those years. Each of us was secretly falling in love with the other but neither of us had the nerve to outright tell each other how we felt.
It built to a head and we finally ended up getting together. For the first time in my life someone loved me for who I really am. All my other relationships, including three marriages, were all built on me not being myself but being who I thought the other person would love. I would say what I thought I should, do what I thought I should and in the end grew more and more resentful poisoning the relationships because I thought deep down I was broken and unlikeable or loveable because of childhood issues.
All that is different with her.
But when we’re apart I am overly sensitive and worried that she is irritated or bothered or angry with me over little things. She says she isnt and that I apologise or adjacent apologise too much. I think I am worried about being abandoned over something that would never be an issue when we are with each other.
I need help.
How do I relax and trust that she loves me and nothing will change that? What do I do when I start to worry and obsess that something might be bothering her? It never is but I keep doing it. I dont want this to be the thing that causes problems, worrying that there are problems when there arent any.
I think your past is affecting your relationship. You need to be confident about yourself and try not to think that you’ve done things wrong. Try and forget about past relationships as you don’t want to let them affect the way you are now. It sounds like she really is there for you and you need to believe that or you could push her away if you don’t trust her. Try to think positive about your relationship and think of all the good things because that will help to make you feel better. It can be hard to move on from you’re past, but it sounds like your new relationship is a lot more real that the others, and you’re being yourself. Just try not to worry too much because she obviously loves you, so you have no reason to worry. I hope things work out for you :) Soph x -
➜my ex and i broke up like 6 months ago and i can't get over him, even though he's mean to me. i'm always there for him even if he hates me my friends say i should stop talking to him because he's not worth it but they don't understand that he means the world to me i don't want to lose him. but now we don't talk at all what should i do to get over him? should i still give him my attention?Anonymous
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➜I want to have a baby but my ldr says we are not ready, we have been together for 10 days(240 hours and 55 miutes ad 45.7 seconds) is this not longenough??and i am 16 and 4 days old??? I know we will be togethe forever so it should not be a problem right? Carry, Northampton xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxAnonymous
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➜HEY im worried about my ldr, he is a mountaineer and is currently climbing a hill in scotland, i want to join him but i don't know how our relationhip would work at a high altitude?????? help pleaseAnonymous
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➜May we be added to your list? :) Courtney and Nick, 1700milesaway is our URL. Thank you! xo
